Life Update #2

Well spring has definitely sprung…

Being a first time horse owner and a complete beginner has definitely been a struggle but i think i may have kicked spring in the butt!

Realising that the grass is so much greener and making Amy crazy if done my research and with a little bit of help from my friends this is how I’ve stopped springs nasty affects on my horses behaviour..

First up i want to give a big shout out to Julie Duffy who has been sending me some tips and little riding plans so i can get Amy back into work.

Following this blog post i will be doing a post about what i feed Amy and why (also including how I’ve kicked springs affects in the butt) and then i will have a short and sweet post about an amazing experience/session we had with a beautiful lady called Emma who helps you connect and speak with your animal.

Amy and myself have definitely grown together in the last few weeks with all our groundwork and riding together. Ive seen a big leap in my confidence and also seen so much improvement with Amy’s riding and she is certainly getting more of a personality! Apart from working my butt off, saving money and looking after my grandparents dog while they are away on a cruise i have also been sewing a few things for Amy one in which i posted on the facebook page earlier this week.

It’s also Amy’s birthday on the 22nd of October and i want to do something fun for her any ideas??

Ive also heard back from the organisers of equitana and i have finally got my draft roster so if you are going make sure you let me know and if you see me there be sure to come over and say hi! Ill be out in the crowd helping horses, vehicles and you guys cross areas safely. My shifts are in the morning 8am-1pm so I’d love to catch up or meet any of you in anyone is heading there.

A little update on Amy’s foot..

Her foot has healed amazingly and i am so happy with how it is looking not that looks are important but I didn’t expect it to look this great! She has had no signs of pain while riding and no heat either so thats a really big plus!

I hope you are all enjoying this crazy October weather (In victoria that is) and i cant wait to hear your thoughts and opinions on my blog post to follow this one!

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Sixteen Hands Candle Co

Boy oh boy are these candles amazing!

Before you read any further yes this is semi sponsored… I mean this in the way that I reached out to this company and they sent me 3 candles and one sample I paid shipping costs (from California) and in return I would do a blog post BUT I may have fallen in love. I love candles but usually forget to burn them lol but these amazing candles have given me motivation 😂

The sample I received was “heels down” after smelling this bad boy I went back on to their shop and purchased a load of melts and one other candle hence the use of ‘semi sponsored’ and I hadn’t even burned any of the original ones yet!

I marched off to Kmart and got myself a $3 wax burner and went right back home to start burning my heels down scent it filled my room and the scent has lingered overnight. The reason I reached out to this company is because of how they are made, the packaging let’s be real it’s bloody cute!


But also where the money goes.. we all know competing is expensive and all the things that go with it so the money you use to purchase theses amazing candles with goes towards the young creators entry fees and such so she can go to events and compete! Now that’s smart and she is doing something she loves to fund something else she loves!

Win Win..

Now the prices are in USD and unfortunately the shipping is uber expensive but if you are interested in purchasing one of these delicious candles I may be able to organise a bulk order if enough people are interested

If you do happen to go through her reviews please kindly ignore the one about the candle filling a lady’s house with soot and leaving her surfaces covered in a black layer of soot because it’s totally not true at all!!

I also want to point out that the sent “wash rack” smells way better once it’s burning it’s very strong but once you are burning it the scent is ever so delightful!!

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Life Update

Well I’m not going to lie the blog has definitely been put on the back burner or a while now, but now its time to get the shit together and continue what I started.

This year has been a complete and utter whirlwind. The whole reason i started this blog was so that i could not only share my journey in the ‘equestrian’ world but to also show others its okay to feel like you are asking a silly question i mean i thought there was something wrong with my horses leg and yet she just had it fully extended… unfortunately not all of the equestrian community make you feel like you can ask those types of questions (no offence intended) i want this to be a safe place for you to laugh with me or at me.

As of late due to Amy’s injury I haven’t been as focused on the blog and uploading content clearly…

At the moment Amy is doing wonderful, no lameness and no proud flesh appeared which was fantastic news for us! Amy is very active and hasn’t let this injury stop her. Amy now has no dressings on (made the call myself) and is enjoying daily free grazing and the ability to enjoy a bigger space as i have opened up the large part of the holding yard for her to use.

Amy also received a well earned massage and some acupuncture from the amazing Jill Steptoe!

If you are following us on facebook (link will be below) you will know that i was also looking for a home for princess pip, pip is an amazing horse and was an amazing companion to Amy but after Amy’s injury it wasn’t fair on her or financially reasonable to keep pip. The search for a new home for pip was hard and took up a lot of my time but as of Thursday 16/08/2018 pip is finally getting the love and attention she really deserves! I do miss having her come up to the gate each morning and her little bit of attitude but i am getting daily updates from her new forever home and she is being treated to hard feed morning and night and also 24/7 access to hay she has 3 other horses to play with and also a mini Shetland and 5 orphan sheep and not to mention the amazing views of the bay she has right at her gate. I will continue to post and update everyone of pip and how she is doing as after all she was apart of our little family and brought lots of smiles and laughter into our homes.

Durning the search for pips new home i also was looking for something new and exciting that being a full time job! I had a few interviews and finally got offered a position which is located close to home, i am now working as a full time stable hand and also still working my equestrian centre job and disability support job on the side which is another reason the blog has been lacking posts but once i am completely settled in, organised and rested there will be more content, On that note if you haven’t already definitely check out our Instagram where i have been posting on my story daily and also have started doing some live videos! (Link down below)

So with all that said and done here are some pictures of the last month and a bit to catch you all up!

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Lots of love and kisses,

Mariah and Amy xox

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HVT Custom Designs

It goes without saying that anything horse related is expensive!

Now those who know me personally would know how I like things to match (most of the time). While I was searching online for saddle pads I came across an old post on Facebook about a page called HVT Custom Designs upon opening the page I spotted the words- “gear exactly how you want it”-D.Fuss

Umm hello who wouldn’t want to have horse riding gear made the way you want it?! I jumped straight over to messenger and got in contact with Danielle (the brains behind business) and we went from choosing a style and a pattern to nearly 2 weeks later receiving my beautiful handmade saddle pad which I fall in love with every time I put it on Amy!

There are so many patterns to choose from but what I loved was that Danielle lets you know what type of material she uses and you can actually go into spotlight and pick out your very own pattern send an image to Danielle and she works her magic from there! Danielle doesn’t just make saddle pads she makes boots, half pads, western pads and so much more so please be sure to go and check out her amazing workmanship it will all be linked down below.

*This post was in no way sponsored by HVT Custom Designs*

(All opinions are my own and I just want to share an amazing product/service with you all)


Well this weekend has been very shitful.. pardon the pun.

My usual farmer who delivers my clover/rye round bales for $80 was not answering so after over 6 days of waiting endless messages i gave in to the two sad faces staring at the ground in the shed looking at the large empty space that is usually filled with lushness and yummy hay.

I opted to go with an actual business who were great and very friendly prompt with delivery BUT I didn’t know what their product was like this was shitty mistake Number 1

I usually role the 500kg bale down to the shed as i worry that due to not knowing what’s hidden in the grass and blanket weeds in that area I don’t want to be responsible for damage to their vehicles this resulted in mistake Number 2…

As i rolled the bale down to the shed i started to go on a diagonal and not a good one, I saved it from going over which would have been a nightmare to get back onto its side, through the huffing and puffy and the horses staring at me like “hurry up mum we want our food” it stopped..

The bale was stuck in a ditch and there was no getting it out myself. With two horses death staring me i called mum for help, help arrived and we got the bale into the shed the horses were happy and i was happy.

After pottering around the paddock for a while cleaning up you guessed it POO i went down to remove the wrapping from around the bale only to discover a dreadful smell wet hay and further in mold. I was supper shitty not only had i spent $80 but i had to pick through the bale to make sure they didn’t eat the moldy parts. Messages back and fourth to my mum and Julie resulted in me calling and messaging the business whom i got the following reply- “Hi Mariah… as they have been stored outside (as all round bales are) this is the part that sits on the ground and will absorb moisture, the rest of the bale however, will be fine.” (Well no shit!) So i continued to pull it apart as I didn’t want to waste my money and certainly didn’t want the horses pooping and peeing all over the good stuff, i then found dry poo and a lot of it!

So that was my shitful Saturday but then to turn up to this (video below) made my shitful Saturday look like a walk in the park. Now i pick up the girls poo every few days but this was the aftermath of my shitty mistake Number 1..

Because i never went to check the bale before buying it i never realised it wasn’t going to be the same as the usual I don’t know what it is but thinking just grass rounds.. I’m no expert but anyway lets just say i thought only humans could shart… now if you don’t know what sharting is here is the low down.. its a mixture between shit and fart, this happens when involuntarily shit when you were really just trying to have an incident quiet ‘nobody heard that’ moment. Well the paddock was a shart party today and clearly I wasn’t informed about it let alone invited!

Runny poop and horses sharting left right and Center and i still had to catch pip to give her, her next strangles needle Amy was great she stood there but pip decided it was on for young and old backing up to try and kick me, only young won in the end she feel for my trap and she ended up getting a much needed brush and detangle of her tail this is mistake Number 3.

If you haven’t already guessed it yes during the shart party the girls clearly didn’t care that they sharted and didn’t bother to clean up after themselves, when i brushed pips tale and then scratched an itch on my face well let’s just say i really hit shit bottom..